Do you expect that from you in eternity there will be sparks and that partner will read your thoughts? Forget the overly high expectations in the relationship and stop the real ground. You will be much happier.
Excessive expectations on a given counter effect. Such links are often crumbling, because almost everyone at least once, fall into a world of unrealistic expectations, assuring us that the other will fulfill all wishes.
Without (too) expectations should not
Impossible to get into a relationship without expectations. The problem is only when he has too. Expectations lead partner in the relationship and expectations overly disappointment. In the latter case, we can primarily be disappointed with themselves. Expectations are our ideals, standards and worldviews. We try to design the partner expecting that he would meet. Prior to exceed the boiling point, you must learn the boundary between the need and expectation.
The needs is that foundation that must be satisfied if we want to be a healthy relationship. All we want to be loved, accepted and understood. Expectations are way nakoj want to receive love and understanding. Moreover, even talking about the needs, and expectations often hide from the person from which something we expect. If he has too, inevitably leading to anger, sadness and disappointment. The more ochekuanja have, the more we can expect disappointments. What is very, very! Continue reading
Corey Haim 